Hypothetical situation.
So a boy and a girl have been together for 2 years.
They are both non-religious.
They decide to make love.
However the boy as made love to someone else other than the girl during a previous encounter, years ago.
So the boy is left with his girlfriend's virginity, while the girlfriend with nothing.
Then a few months later, the boy decides he wants to be a Christian and mend his ways.
My question is: what happens to the girl's virginity that he has?
Will he be forced to recognize the act as immoral as it was Prue-marital?
Will he look back in disgust?
Did the girl give her virginity away in vain?
Virginity is just a concept, its not something mystical or anything. And it sounds like she didn't give it away in vain since her first time was with someone she cared about who she was with for 2 years.
No one 'has' Antone's virginity (or, I've never heard the Bible put it that way, at least)...
He committed a sexual sin that he would need to repent of.
No, people who are saved from sin, don't look back on their sins in disgust (or guilt).
Any sex before marriage is giving ones virginity away in vain...
when you lose your virginity it is gone. he will not be forced to do anything, he may regret but Godly regret causes repentance. anything you do that is not God's will is in vain
Why do you see virginity as a possession to be given away or to be held back? Making love is the ultimate expression of love, and has no conditions, other than that both love each other. Enjoy the moment, remember it and then let it go.
Responsible men take responsibility for what they did, whether they are religious or not
So if the said boy is heartless in nature, which seems like probably, because he did this twice and will very likely do this again, yes she gave up her virginity away in vain
the boy lost his virginity in a previous encounter
the girl the boy is with now wants to have sex with him
did they have sex?
if the boy had sex with the current girl the girl is not a virgin
if they did not have sex she is still a virgin while the boy is not
what happens to the girl's virginity that he has?
what do you mean?
either the girl has never had sex which means she is a virgin still
if she had sex she is not a virgin any more
if sex was done then yes it is immoral and fornication was committed
the boy had committed fornication with the first girl
if the boy and the current girl had sex than both have committed fornication
Will he look back in disgust?
that only can be determined by the boy
we can not say
Did the girl give her virginity away in vain?
yes
god says no sex before marriage it is fornication
A man will never forget being with a virgin and will always remember it fondly especially when there was true love involved. The girl was going to give it away regardless but at least it was with someone who meant something at the time.
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