Desi Muslim guys vs Hindu guys?
as an NRI Hindu, I've often observed that here in the West Muslim Desi guys have better luck with the girls than Hindu guys do. I've noticed that even if the Muslim and Hindu are similar in color, looks, and physical build, somehow the Muslim guys gets luckier than the Hindu one. I've been told that it's BC the muslims are more aggressive, assertive, and straightfwd with women than hindu ones. they're more upfront, in ur face, and chase-stalk after women like predators after prey. even though on the face of it women claim they don't like stalkers, aggressive males, in reality, deep down they do! this is the surprising part abt western, or any modern, women. even though they talk abt feminism, independence, career, etc, they still want to be dominated and possessed by a man. this seems very very counter-intuitive,but that's what i've been told. since muslims, generally, treat women like property and believe they're entitled to them, they give women the thing that they want/expect from a man.
Hindus, on the other hand, i've been told respect women too much. they treat them according to face value and are big on romance and all that mushy stuff which bollywood teaches them. also, Hindus don't have a history of conquering foreign lands and capturing their women, and so they don't have that aggressiveness/possessiveness that muslims do. even Hindu women seem to flock more to muslim men for informal relationships than to their own. in the book 'maximum city' the gujarati patel bar dancer girl who dated a muslim guy states that "muslims have that anger, and they want what is theirs to stay theirs...i found someone who would protect me from the world". it is odd that despite the 2 communities living side by side for centuries, Hindus men don't seem to have learnt anything from muslims abt this craft. how to be with women,and how to attract them, is a craft in itself...especially in the 21st century where arranged marriage is on the decline and ppl are left to find someone on their own. it appears that as far as desis go, muslims are the expert pick-up artists, players. the fertility rate,and pop growth rate, of desi Muslims is at least 2x that of Hindus.
given these observations, i would to ask any desi muslim guys to offer any tips/advice on how to be successful with women?
Disclaimer: don't say stupid stuff like size of package,etc is the key. the fact is that there is no biological difference in that area betw Desis, regardless of religion!! it's more of a historical/mental and social thing. Add to this the fact that Hindus were the 1st to worship women as a form of God, and u have the recipe for lots of bachelors in the wild 21st century!
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