muslims answer please: y cant a hindu girl marry a muslim boy?
Muslims...a question for you...please answer
I'm in love with a Muslim boy and I'm a Hindu girl, he 6months younger than me, we are in relationship since 1yr. now he wants to break up with me because he says his mother would die out of shock if he marries a Hindu. so my question is "cant a Hindu girl marry a Muslim boy?" how do i convince him?
Muslims can't marry Hindus, sorry. If you really want to marry him you should convert to Islam (not only for HIM, but for Allah. Research about Islam first.)
Muslims are only allowed to marry "people of the book"....Hindu's are not people of the book. You can still end up marry that Muslim boy, but you would need to convert to Islam....or Christianity or Judaism....but one of those first. It is ha ram for a Muslim man to marry anyone who's religion isn't one of those 3. If he were to, the marriage would be invalid...wouldn't count, wouldn't be married at all depute what a piece of paper said.
Unfortunately, you won't be able to convince him. You either convert to one of the said 3, or you marry someone else but him. Those are your only 2 choices. Of course, there is that chance that he may not be very religious and decide to convert to some other religion, but that is unlikely.
Why don't you start reading about Islam? Maybe and perhaps you would be willing to convert. I was raised a christian but found Islam through reading and under no compulsion from anyone. I love Islam now so much....much different feeling from what I got from Christianity.
This is exactly why I am urging you to study Islam "Please think long and hard about this relationship. Marrying a Muslim would be the worst possible thing you could do. You have been raised in a religion of peace, love and compassion. Islam is exactly the opposite. Try to urge him to give up his misguided belief and either become a Hindu or an atheist.
Muslims will consider you entirely beneath them, they fail to understand the Hindu religion on any level and despise it. A Hindu girl cannot marry a Muslim boy because he is not worthy of her."
You heard about 9-11 I am sure...with the Twin Towers. Do you know what happened after wards? MANY people ended up converting to Islam because after the attack, they started researching Islam rather than believe everything they hear, such as the girl who said what was above this.
Islam doesn't allow a Muslim to marry a girl who is not Muslim, Jew or Christian. Simple as that !
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People like Ahmad make me laugh !
He showed two cruel verses from Quran; first one is against the human right and says slavery is right other proves how cruel Allah is... and then said Allah loves us all and Islam is a peaceful religion. LOL
Please think long and hard about this relationship. Marrying a Muslim would be the worst possible thing you could do. You have been raised in a religion of peace, love and compassion. Islam is exactly the opposite. Try to urge him to give up his misguided belief and either become a Hindu or an atheist.
Muslims will consider you entirely beneath them, they fail to understand the Hindu religion on any level and despise it.
A Hindu girl cannot marry a Muslim boy because he is not worthy of her.
(2:221):"Do not marry unbelieving women (idolaters), until they believe: A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though she allures you. Nor marry (your girls) to unbelievers until they believe: A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, even though he allures you. Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the Fire. But Allah beckons by His Grace to the Garden (of bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His Signs clear to mankind: That they may celebrate His praise."
none will be saved on the Day of Resurrection but those who follow it. Allaah says in His Book, the Holy Qur?Ana (interpretation of the meaning):
?And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers?
[Aal ?Imraan 3:85]
Therefore if he really loves you will never let you be among the losers in the hereafter
i suggest you: study about Islam i m sure you will really be convinced and bring Islam in your life
and marry this guy you will be happy, he will be happy, his family will be happy and most important Your creator will be pleased and that will lead you to heaven
inhaleLah
May Allah Guide you
First of all I am not Muslim but my cousin is married to one, and they had an interfaith wedding, it was neither Hindu nor Muslim, but if this boy really loves you then I think you two could find common ground somewhere, and you have to decide on certain things before going forward to marriage.
But personally speaking, if he cant fight for his love, then I am sorry to tell you, he does not deserve you. Because you should not have to change your identity, and if his family is understanding then it can work.
There have been many Hindu-muslim wedding and if there is an understanding between the two it can work, because God decides relationships, if god wants this then it will happen and it does not matter what a book says about it, because god's will is the highest!
Good Luck, I know you want to do what your heart says, but also think about it too!
Love and understanding is the cornerstone of all religions and love must conquer all. The Quran says: This day I have made all things halal for you. It not only refers specifically to the Jews and Christians, but also to the Sabians. Sabians is a broad term. The ancient Sabains and the new Sabains. Original Sabians worshiped angels and other things. They have not disappeared from the planet, some live in Iraq and often called Mandaeans. It is suspected and entirely conceivable that some moved to the land of India many centuries ago; but these are still Sabains, though now some have become Hindu and not necessarily of their free will.
The Quran speaks of Sabians as people of the book and the reason it provides no details as to who they were is because it would have complicated the matter and did not want to get it to genealogy.
My humble conclusion, therefore is, that the marriage based on good intentions, Muslims and Sabains and others, is always halal.
Namaste
Sorry but it is absolutely forbidden for a Muslim to marry a Hindu.
Being a Muslim, I respect all faiths and I hope you can respect ours.
Islam is a monotheist religion where we believe in one God.
The only way for you to marry a Muslim is to convert to Islam, but it would have to be because you want to from the heart and not because of him.
He would be right in saying that it would kill his mother but it was wrong for him to lead you on knowing that he could never marry you.
For all those others, a little about Hinduism!
Hinduism is generally associated with a multiplicity of Gods, and it does not advocate the worship of one particular deity. The gods and goddesses of Hinduism amount to thousands, all representing the many aspects of only One supreme Absolute called ?Brahman?.
The paths are many but God is One.
My dear deepish. As a Hindu girl you could not marry a Muslim guy because according to the Qur'an and Eadith,a Muslim guy should marry with a Muslim girl. You can convert your religion to Islam seriously before marrying a Muslim guy.If you converted to Islam all of your sins (bad deeds) in the past will be forgiven by Allah and all of your good deeds in the past will be rewarded by Allah.If you do not convert to Islam,all of your good deeds would not be accepted by Allah based on Eadith
Before converting you must learn and understand the Qur'an and Eadith as the life guides for all muslims and you try to apply it in your daily life such as mandatory prayers 5 times a day.Life in Islam is easier than in hinduism.You have so many gods while in Islam there no god,except Allah.The religious ceremony in Islam is very limited and it is cheaply..
When the boy and the girl is not worried of either of there religion. (Love is Blind) No God fear, No fear for parents / relatives & friends either of your parents / relatives & friends will not be on your side.
So think of those who know you care for you and know you better then any from the time of your birth, respect them and try to convince them if your love is true, friends for 12 months with one.and you may effect every one on both sides for rest of your life.
you can marry with him if he wishes to become Hindu ...as my friend did it in Pakistan ...
so many Hollywood actors like heretic Rosana weds Muslim girl, Malacca Aurora - now khan....
and so many cases ,,,all blood is same , oxygen is same , water is same . food is same ...
so why diff religions as people made this ............while Abdul shah Abdel came India he forcefully made them islamic ,,,,else it is still Hindustan >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
so think before getting in relationship twice..............................
well Sweet i don't want to offend u but the truth is that he never wanted to marry u...his mom not allowing is just a lame reason...Muslim guys like these will always marry a Muslim girl or he will ask u to convert which is a shame...
A Muslim man can marry a non-Muslim woman. But A non-Muslim woman cannot marry a Muslim man.
I think that Muslims and Hindus should not marry [unless they can work things out] because there will be a lot of controversy. For example, what religion will you teach your children - Hinduism or Islam? Also, whether you will keep idols in your home.
Darling, I hope you understand. You sound like a very sweet girl and I hope Allah [Set] will guide you!
P.S. Usually, the fact of a Muslim marrying a Hindu is frowned upon. I'm not sure why.
DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA THAT YOU IN A DANGEROUS RELIGION WHICH IS SHAME ON SOCIETY?
lets take the History
Blood thrust Arabs invaded everywhere.. murdering people & taking woman as sex slaves
Muslims Beheaded Prophet Muhammed's Grandson Hussain
Muslims kicked Prophet Muhammed's Daghter that lead to miscarry
Sunni kill Shia
Shia blow Sunni
Muslims murdering Ahmadiyya Muslim
Muslims slaughtering of Hindus, Sikhs, Buddhist in Asia
Muslims killing Jews & Christians
Islamic Terrorists Have carried out more than 16,789 Deadly Terror Attacks since 9/11
MORE OF A RECENT:
2011.02.08 (Temanggung, Indonesia) - A Muslim mob viciously beats a priest trying unsuccessfully to keep them from burning three churches and an orphanage.
2011.02.08 (Yala, Thailand) - A 58-year-old Buddhist man and his wife are shot in their pickup truck by Muslim 'insurgents'.
2011.02.07 (Iskandariya, Iraq) - A woman is among two Iraqis murdered by Mujahideen bombers.
2011.02.07 (Bak, Afghanistan) - A local official is assassinated by Sunni fundamentalists.
2011.02.07 (Kandahar, Afghanistan) - An Afghan is taken out by a Fedayeen suicide bomber.
2011.02.06 (Nut Kallan, Pakistan) - A young Christian is tortured to death by several Muslims.
SHAME ON YOU O WOMAN TO BE A MUSLIMAH, COME OUT OF ISLAM NOW, ITS NEVER LATE
A Muslim male can only marry another Muslim, Christian, or a Jew. As a Hindu you are a polytheist and therefore have deviated from the truth of the Abrahamic religions
Islam believes in one God and therefore prohibits marrying a polytheist, idol worshiper, pagan, etc
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muslims answer please: y cant a hindu girl marry a muslim boy?
