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Old 09-29-2008, 11:03 PM
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Default Muslim girl do not want changed First name after marrying Hindu and converting into H

I am a Muslim girl working in a top IT company. I am planning to marry my boy friend who is a Hindu. I do not want to change my first name at any cost as I am emotionally attached to it and consider it my identity.
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Old 10-02-2008, 11:03 PM
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are you a troll?
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Old 10-07-2008, 11:03 PM
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If you're gonna be mixing the two crackpot religions in marriage, who cares about the name? By marrying a Hindu you're already showing you don't really respect your religious beliefs anyway.
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Old 10-09-2008, 11:03 PM
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marrying a Hindu guy is not HILAL in Islam....

dint change Ur religion just because of a guy......
girl ,I'll find many other guys in this world....even if I'll leave this 1 ,
one day u will be able to get over it......
but once u leave Ur religion forever, Ur going to regret it..

u can die tomorrow....
what will u say to ALLAH then?
why r u even converting into Hinduism....??

i would really like to knew about it.........
plz email me romasaghauri@yahoo.com..
i really wanna knw what made u convert in hinduism....
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Old 10-10-2008, 11:03 PM
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WDF! Are you sure? The beliefs of Hindus and Muslims are totally in contrast with each other...
Buh, since you are planning on marrying a Hindu. I would not class you as a Muslim...

About your name...
It's not compulsory in Islam for a woman to change her name or surname after marriage...
So it's up to the girl.

Like I said... I don't class you as a Muslim.
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Old 10-11-2008, 11:03 PM
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Bahama wow blooming question when u r leaving Islam so why are u just caring about your name actually you don't deserve the name madam....u should be shame
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Old 10-14-2008, 11:03 PM
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If you are emotionally attached to your name and you don't want to change your Identity, why you choose your life partner from other sect. Indeed find out any suitable person from your own religion. Such marriages create many problems later on. Be careful while choosing a person where it is question for whole life Thereafter there will not be any confusion about changing of first name.
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Old 10-15-2008, 11:03 PM
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I don't see why not. Your fiance should understand, it's not like you're making him change his name. My brother married a Hindu girl, and neither of them changed their first name.
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Old 10-20-2008, 11:03 PM
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Why should you? I wouldn't change my first name so that I could marry a man. I'd expect him to accept me as I am, name and all LONG before I even considered marrying him. To be honest, even though my culture expects me to, I won't change my surname either. Why should women have to give up their identity but not men?

You need to ask yourself if your boyfriend will accept you keeping your name. If not, wonder why not, and if you're willing to make that sacrifice of identity to be with him.

I personally think that spirituality, whatever form it comes in, Muslim, Hindu, Christian should be a person's individual choice and no one should be expected to 'convert' to anything for anyone. If you want to that's your choice - all I'm saying is don't be backed into it. This is your life, your relationship with God, your choice.

You may have to put your foot down, if you choose to argue your corner
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Old 10-22-2008, 11:03 PM
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You want to convert to Hinduism ,, to not bath and to offer gods Milk ,, are you sane , why it is not the other way let your friend become a Muslim , so you will get both halal marriage and a reward for converting your boyfriend , from Idols worshiping to Almighty Allah .
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Old 10-26-2008, 11:03 PM
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Whatever.Start worshiping cows and monkeys.
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Old 10-28-2008, 11:03 PM
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Pl don't do that blunder you will repent
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Old 10-29-2008, 11:03 PM
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what does it matter you will be stoned to death when your fellow mosque member find out.
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Old 10-31-2008, 11:03 PM
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If you marry a Hindu Boy and follow His religion you will become a Fair. Please Do any thing very seriously.
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Old 09-28-2011, 05:00 PM
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Default Inter-caste/religion marriges should be approved....

Yes, even I also don't agree to change her religion and beliefs after marriage (as I believe, we should follow our religion and respect other's religions too..).. and if a Hindu guy and a Muslim Girl fall in love with each other and their love is true n pure then the society should also take a step forward by accepting their relation and let them pursue and take it to the next level. Now, its their matter how well they coordinate with each other,... after all its their life and they have full right to decide their future,..... .. I believe true lovers will not face any problem in it.

GOD is one, those are we who call and worship him through different names and ways,....
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