Am I disobedient to Allah because of this? Is Islam a woman's religion?

Well, I feel that Islam is a feminist religion because females seem to have all the advantages...

In the Qur'an, MEN have been instructed to lower their gaze before women. WHY?

Regarding lesser Jihad, men have to go out into the battlefield and get their heads blown off by missiles, but a woman's Jihad is simply an accepted Hajj. All they have to do is pray, be modest, obey their husbands and they enter Heaven through whichever door they wish. Why can't a man enter Paradise through any door if he prays and is modest? Why is the path to Paradise easier for women than men?

Men are not allowed to listen to female voices, but females can listen to men reciting the Qur'an. WHY?

"The HIJAB IS A SORT OF "SCREEN" BETWEEN THE CHASTE MUSLIM WOMAN AND THE EVIL THAT EXISTS IN THE WORLD. When a woman wears a hi jab she is less likely to be harassed by men with lusty motives; SHE IS LESS LIKELY TO BE EXPLOITED FOR HER BEAUTY AND FEMINITY."
Are men the evil that exist in the world?

Women only have to sexually please their husband. It's OKAY if they do not cook or whatever...but the husband has a tonne of responsibilities...feeding, clothing and providing for the wife is his RESPONSIBILITY, and the woman is free to divorce her husband if he does not fulfill all these responsibilities.

"Polygamy reduces the number of women who are available. Currently, with more women than men, this 'cheapens' women. With less women available their 'value' goes up. In other words, polygamy makes men have to try harder and do better with women if they are to win them in competition with other men."
WHY THE HELL should men waste their time and lives running behind women? Why wasn't polygamy forbidden altogether, just like polyandry is?

Ibn 'Umar reported: Grant permission to women for going to the mosque in the night. His son who was called Waqid said: Then they would make mischief. He (the narrator) said: He thumped his (son's) chest and said: I am narrating to you the Eadith of the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him), and you say: No! (Sahih Muslim Book 004, Number 0890)
Ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said: Do not deprive women of their share of the mosques, when they seek permission from you. Bilal said: By Allah, we would certainly prevent them. 'Abdullah said: I say that the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said it and you say: We would certainly prevent them! (Sahih Muslim Book 004, Number 0891)
Why should they be allowed when they can be a cause of great fitnah...even if it's night?

The man must provide the woman with dowry, and she gets to keep all of it.

Narrated AbuSa'id al-Khudri: Allah's Messenger (peace_be_upon_him) said: The most wicked among the people in the eye of Allah on the Day of Judgement is the man who goes to his wife and she comes to him, and then he divulges her secret. (Muslim Book 8, Number 3369)
WHY NOT A WOMAN WHO DIVULGES A MAN'S SECRET?

Patient behavior was the practice of the Prophet, even when his wife dared to address him harshly. Once his mother-in-law- saw her daughter strike him with her fist on his noble chest. When the enraged mother -in-law began to reproach her daughter, the Prophet smilingly said, "Leave her alone; they do worse than that." And once Abu Bakr, his father-in-law, was invited to settle some misunderstanding between him and Aishah. The Prophet said to her, "Will you speak, or shall I speak?" Aisha said, "You speak, but do not say except the truth." Abu Bakr was so outraged that he immediately struck her severely, forcing her to run and seek protection behind the back of the Prophet. Abu Bakr said, "O you the enemy of herself! Does the Messenger of Allah say but the truth?"
The Prophet said, "O Abu Bakr, we did not invite you for this [harsh dealing with Aishah], nor did we anticipate it." quoted in: Mutual Rights and Obligations
SO IT'S OKAY FOR A WIFE TO BEAT HER HUSBAND? AND IT'S OKAY IF SHE BEHAVES WITH HIM HARSHLY, BUT HE MUST NOT BEHAVE WITH HER HARSHLY...?

People making accusations against chaste women must produce four eye witnesses to the act or suffer a flogging themselves and have their evidence rejected ever after.

Women are thus well provided for: their husbands support them, and they inherit from all their relations. They are allowed to engage in business or work at home or outside the house, so long as the family does not suffer, and the money they make is their own, with no calls on it from other people until their death.

In cases of divorce, the mother has first claim to custody of the young children.
`If anyone does not give his daughter in marriage when she reaches 12 and she commits sin, the guilt of that rests on him.' Hadith: Baihaqi, and
He who has a son born to him should give him a good name and a good
He who has a son born to him should give him a good name and a good education and marry him when he reaches puberty. If he does not marry him when he reaches puberty and he commits sin, its guilt rests only upon his father.(Baihaqi)

Is Islam a woman's religion?

I honestly do not want to give a damn about women in Islam. I don't care about this topic. It's too feminist. I am not interested in marriage, nor am I sexually attracted to women. All I know is that women, just like everybody else, should be treated nicely, and I think that is enough. But this is evident prejudice! It makes my head spin...

Can asking such questions lead me to Hell? I just do not want to be thrown into Hell.

Can somebody please email me and help me out? :'( :'( :'(

Well, I only read the first sentence b/c this thing is sh*t ass long. Men have to lower their gaze, but that doesn't mean women go ahead and act like sluts and whores. Women as well must lower their gaze.
edit: oh boy I'm pushing forward in this rant: "Men are not allowed to listen to female voices, but females can listen to men reciting the Qur'an. WHY?" What kind of argument was that. That's more of a feminist argument allowing women to claim that their voices aren't heard by men. " With less women available their 'value' goes up. In other words, polygamy makes men have to try harder and do better with women if they are to win them in competition with other men." You made women seem more like objects and prizes to be won rather than human beings. Can such questions lead you to Hell? No. For a person who likes Math, you think rather irrationally.

Poor fella.

May Allah guide you.

I only read what I wanted to read (sorry) to be honest hi jab does not make a difference perverts will still look. I'm not go in to wear a Niqab because it won't change any thin +& don't see why I should change the way I am because of some dirty b!staid.. I don't understand wt their problem is on a level. I'm talk in about freshers +& them Kurdish guys. They walk past a girl who has her eyes down +& they'll say 'Mashallah' +& you know its the pervert way. I'm not big gin myself up or any thin but I always look down it's become a habit not so I don't look at guys well that is one reason but I don't like givin guys the satisfaction of them thinkin they are all it +& blah blah..

Now I've read everythin else lol..
Erm to be honest I don't see where you got this info from because it also says in the hadis more women will go to hell because of backbitin +& loads of other crap so I don't understand how you can say more women will go to heaven.
In Islam a man is meant to treat his wife with love +& care +& vise versa. From what your sayin it doesn't even sound like its from the Quran or the hadis. I'm not a practisin Muslim but I know my basics +& the stuff I've learnt from my mum +& cousins

I'm sure someone else with more info will provide you with a better answer Inshallah

Jeezus! (and I dint say that a lot). I became totally lost in reading.

But let me just get one thing straight. Islam made all those things you say (if they are all true. I ha vent finished reading) so woman can feel accepted. Prophet Muhammad SAW said "Blah...blah...blah..(i cant ember the Eadith)...they possess nothing themselves unless what you give them. Treat them gently...(and so on)."

Another thing is men are the cruel people in the world. All those decrees were their guide to survive us. We are 99% of the killers, looters, rapers, muggers and buggers.

Are men asked to observe hi jab?

Are men judged by their appearance?

Do men birth children?

Have you ever thought about this? Men have their advantages as do women.

Men are attractive too why dint they wear Niqab?

And men can go to the mosque more often



ISLAM IS NOT A FEMINIST RELIGION IT IS EQUALITY AMONG BOTH SEXES

Islam is a cult that wants Muslim men to be the masters, Muslim women to be the slaves, and every other human on earth to be dead.

I used to be that way too brother.

and i can add MANY more things in similar context.
but, to no avail.

CZ that is only gonna annoy u and convince u of this 'Warsaw's' from Satan.
YES! this is a ploy by Satan, which makes u look at ONE side of the COIN and NOT contemplate over the the rest of 'so called' differences.

i wish to send u one Eadith, which might qualm u! initially.

what is Ur email address?

err rm hey, can i email you? We can talk serious Islam if you want, I know a fair among inhaleLFahd just want to help clear some things up for you .... would that be OK?

I differ:

It was narrated from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) that women will form the majority of the people of Hell. It was narrated from ?Imraan bin Husayn that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ?I looked into Paradise and I saw that the majority of its people were the poor. And I looked into Hell and I saw that the majority of its people are women.?

(Narrated by AL-Bukhaari, 3241; Muslim, 2737)

I think Islam is a lie, and cannot be from GOD.