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Old 08-06-2010, 11:22 PM
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Default Is Valentine's Day HARAAM in Islam?

Roses are Red
Violets are Blue
VALENTINE'S DAY is what the Non-Muslims Do.

Shaytaan is the Third Present Between the Unmarried Two,
So Remember O Muslim
it is Haraam [i.e. Forbidden] for You!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oqOI8FU13vE&feature=player_embedded
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Old 08-11-2010, 11:22 PM
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to the legit couples
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Old 08-13-2010, 11:22 PM
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It is very halal and Islam (that means the Quran) encourages showing appreciation to your family, friends and loved ones. Relationships are not according to the Quran ha ram. The prophet himself had a relationship with Khadija, in fact, she is the one proposed to him after learning about him based on her personal relationship. Their personal relationship included respect and admiration for each other (this is all before marriage), included long walks in the shade of the beautiful images of desert plants, desert shrubs, palms, cacti and other succulents appearing shrubberies.

He often picked up flowers and gave it to her. The Quran says he has provided for the adornment of women, to wear jewelries (pearls) of the sea. I celebrate Valentine's Day, all the Muslim women I know also celebrate because Quran does not prohibit showing your appreciation. The Mullahs like you who are cheap, are just trying to save a buck by attacking the Valentine's Day (Saint Valentine was martyred for bringing couple together). Love is not ha ram. Valentine's Day is just a reminder to the followers of the Quran to remember to show appreciation each day!
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Old 08-16-2010, 11:22 PM
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It is ha ram...but you shunt wait until v-day to show love, it should be everyday thing
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Old 08-20-2010, 11:22 PM
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Of course it is ha ram. Ya Allah, some Muslims celebrate it not knowing it's pagan roots or even why they celebrate it. It's a part of "fitting in" with the Fr. A day full of Zia and ha ram, may Allah protect us from the evils of Shaytaan.

Check this out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kSQ0wr-18rc

It summarizes the roots of Valentines Day.

EDIT: I bet half of you who gave me a thumbs down didn't even bother to watch the video. I am not saying it's ha ram because I want to, I am saying it's ha ram because it is, and I can back my answer up with a whole load of evidence (None of you would even read!).

Muslims are permitted to celebrate only two days (Eid AL fit and ad ha), nothing less, nothing more. Anything more than that would be an innovation considering the fact that Valentine's Day comes from pagan Romans. Go figure.

May Allah guide us all.
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Old 08-22-2010, 11:22 PM
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Valentines day is not religious. As for how it is celebrated, that depends on who it is celebrating. If one does something ha ram to celebrate, then they are doing something ha ram.

Myself however, I bought my mom a purple rose and little chocolate scented candle. Will be giving my little bro and sisters something chocolate, and probably heart shaped. And I will wish all of them a happy valentines day with a smile.

Don't really care who has a problem with it either, as I know I am doing nothing wrong.

If you or anyone else wants to say Satan is controlling me in my willingness to celebrate valentines day, or give me some other reason for why it is wrong, feel free. I know who I will answer to in the end, and it certainly won't be you or any other human.
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Old 08-25-2010, 11:22 PM
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Assalamu alumKims I do agree with you than celebrating valentine for muslims is haram because Muhammad pbuh in his hadith had forbidden us to imitate/follow the tradition of kafir people
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Old 08-27-2010, 11:22 PM
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Of course it's Haram.
Everything that show love and affection is forbidden in Islam.
Islam is the Religion of hatred.
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Old 08-30-2010, 11:22 PM
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Certain quarters of Muslims say it is ha ram, but some dint think it is. Why did it fall under the category of ha ram?. Because it could trigger a passionate love which later could lead to sex. That's what they are afraid of. Anyway, if Valentine means a space for you to know someone and later become your partner in life, in a proper way, i guess it shouldn't be ha ram.
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Old 09-02-2010, 11:22 PM
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Yes its Haram .

Valentine?s Day is a jailiLiaman festival, which continued to be celebrated until after the Romans became Christian. This festival became connected with the saint known as Valentine who was sentenced to death on 14 February 270 CE. The kuffaar still celebrate this festival, during which immorality and evil are practised widely.

Al-Haafiz al-Dhahabi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: If the Christians have a festival, and the Jews have a festival, it is only for them, so no Muslim should join them in that, just as no Muslim should join them in their religion or their direction of prayer.
from Tashabbuh al-Khasees bi Ahl al-Khamees, published in Majallat al-Hikmah (4/193)

Shaykh Ibn ?Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked about the ruling of Valentines Day. He replied:

Celebrating Valentine?s Day is not permissible for a number of reasons.

1- It is an innovated festival for which there is no basis in Islam.

2- It promotes love and infatuation.

3- It calls for hearts to be preoccupied with foolish matters that are contrary to the way of the righteous salaf (may Allaah be pleased with them).
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Old 09-03-2010, 11:22 PM
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Yes. Did the Prophet (SAW) ever celebrate such a practice? Did his Sahaabah (RA)? His family (RA)? Is this not an imitation of the Kufaar?

Valentines day should not be celebrated by the true believers. We follow the way of the Prophet (SAW), not Th Kufaar.
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Old 09-05-2010, 11:22 PM
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Salam, Great Video that was, MashaAllah
Yes your right, Valentine's day is ha ram indeed:

Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds, and blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his family and companions. Allah has chosen for us Islam as our religion and He will not accept any other religion from anyone, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):
?And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers" [Aal ?Imraan 3:85]

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) told us that groups of his Emma would follow the enemies of Allah in some of their rituals and customs, as it says in the Hadlee of Abu Sa?Ede AL-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him), who narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: ?You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you, span by span, cubit by cubit, until even if they were to enter a lizard?s hole, you would follow them.? We said, ?O Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and Christians?? He said, ?Who else? !? (Narrated by al-Bukhaari in al-I?tisaam bi?l-Kitaab wa?l-Sunnah, Baab Qawl al-Nabi (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) La tattabi?unna Sanan man kaana qablakum, 8/151; and by Muslim in Kitaab al-?Ilm, Baab Ittibaa? Sanan al-Yahood wa?l-Nasaara, 4/ 2054)

What the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) spoke of has indeed come to pass and has become widespread in recent times, in many of the Muslim countries. Many of the Muslims follow the enemies of Allah in many of their customs and ways of behaving, and imitate them in some of their rituals and in celebrating their holidays. The matter has been made even worse by the opening up of mass communications between peoples, whereby the rituals and customs of the kuffaar are now transmitted with the glamorous adornment of sound and image from their countries into the Muslim countries, via satellite TV and the World Wide Web (Internet). Many Muslims have been deceived by their glamour.

In recent years, a new phenomenon has spread among the Muslim youth ? males and females alike ? which does not bode well. This is manifested in their imitation of the Christians in their celebration of the Valentine?s Day, which has led the scholars and daa?iyahs to explain the rulings of sharee?ah concerning that, out of sincerity towards Allah, His Messenger, the leaders of the Muslims and their common folk, so that Muslims may have a clear understanding of this issue and so that they will not fall into that which will undermine the belief (?aqeedah) with which Allah has blessed them. This is a brief discussion of the origins, development and purpose of this holiday, and what the Muslim should do with regard to it.
The Festival of Love was one of the festivals of the pagan Romans, when paganism was the prevalent religion of the Romans more than seventeen centuries ago. In the pagan Roman concept, it was an expression of ?spiritual love?. There were myths associated with this pagan festival of the Romans, which persisted with their Christian heirs. Among the most famous of these myths was the Roman belief that Romulus, the founder of Rome, was suckled one day by a she-wolf, which gave him strength and wisdom. The Romans used to celebrate this event in mid-February each year with a big festival. One of the rituals of this festival was the sacrifice of a dog and a goat. Two strong and muscular youths would daub the blood of the dog and goat onto their bodies, then they would wash the blood away with milk. After that there would be a great parade, with these two youths at its head, which would go about the streets. The two youths would have pieces of leather with which they would hit everyone who crossed their path. The Roman women would welcome these blows, because they believed that they could prevent or cure infertility.
The connection between Saint Valentine and this festival
Saint Valentine is a name which is given to two of the ancient ?martyrs? of the Christian Church. It was said that there were two of them, or that there was only one, who died in Rome as the result of the persecution of the Gothic leader Claudius, c. 296 CE. In 350 CE, a church was built in Rome on the site of the place where he died, to perpetuate his memory.
* Valentine's day celebrated by muslim couples who are not married supports the idea of lust/love and infactuation of an individual. According to the Qur'an and hadiths, all Muslims should be Modest, lower their gaze and stay away from aspects that invite Shaytan such as lust, pre-marital sex etc. May Allah guide people towards of the right path, away from the mischief of Shaytan. Ameen.
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