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Old 08-19-2010, 09:36 PM
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Default What is haram in islam?

Heres what my mom told me
Sins for Muslim girls

hanging out with boys or even touching them
getting married
u must forever be single and only allowed to talk to girls
romance is a sin
not going to school each day is a sin
education is more important than Islam
only talk to Ur brother u can only be close to him they're Ur true soul mates
I'm 14 has she been teaching me the wrong things???
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Old 08-21-2010, 09:36 PM
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all of those
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Old 08-26-2010, 09:36 PM
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Don't worry about all that. Just follow your heart. It's all we need
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Old 08-28-2010, 09:36 PM
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...fun
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Old 09-02-2010, 09:36 PM
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Most of those are wrong. You are allowed to get married ob vs. :S
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Old 09-06-2010, 09:36 PM
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hanging out with boys and touching, hugging them is not allowed
Muslims have to get married, it is half of their Dene,
Education is important in Islam, Education is not more important
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Old 09-10-2010, 09:36 PM
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Some of these are wrong.
In Islam, ha ram basically means sin or forbidden.
Hanging out with boys as in what? Talking to them? That's fine, but if you're talking about inappropriate things then it is ha ram. If you're touching that is ha ram. You shouldn't look inappropriately at a boy either, looking at awkward places for example. And same goes for the boy.

Getting married is not ha ram, marriage is as if you've completed half your Dene(faith). You don't have to be forever single, you can get married. But having boyfriends is ha ram. You can talk to the opposite sex.
Romance before marriage is ha ram as it will only tempt you to do more ha ram.

Not going to school each day? I don't know about that Lil!

Education is not more important than Islam.

You can talk to other people than your brother, what about your friends, other members of family, teachers etc. I don't know about the second bit.

Salam.
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Old 09-13-2010, 09:36 PM
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I think you are a very sweet girl and i respect your mom words but if you really like some guy than nothing is wrong . I am a Hindu but i dint be live in any cast says that love is impure. You should live your life in the way you want and i really like your thought and i be live there is a pretty face is smiling behind that computer. Lets be in touch.
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Old 09-15-2010, 09:36 PM
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1. Haram for boys and girls to be alone together or touch each other. For Muslim girls and Muslim boys.
2. No getting married is not Haram...
3. Seem as there are 1.6 Billion Muslims who marry and have children I guess its safe to say we do not say single forever.
4. Romance is definitely not ha ram.
5. Getting an education is very important. Respecting your studies and your education is paramount but not a sin should it be missed for a genuine reason.
6. Islam for Muslim is the most important thing in our lives. It sets the president for all other aspects of how we live.
7. Are you suggesting incest? No your ''brothers'' are not your soul mates. We are free to talk to anyone in the appropriate circumstances.
8. Yes, sadly if this is what your mother thinks Islam entails she is mistaken.
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Old 09-16-2010, 09:36 PM
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Do Women and Men have equal rights?Indeed,Muslim women have,and had since 600 A.D.. Non-Muslim women have been oppressed and suppressed for centuries.Judaism and Christianity consider women to be an inferior species,born sinners,unclean etc. As for atheism,it is not a religion,and thus have no rules.If a chauvinist leader is elected,he may decide to revoke a law allowing women to vote and replace it with one that forbids it.And again, another leader may come up and pass another Bill declaring owning of property by women to be illegal etc.And of course,a just leader may appear centuries later and declare women and men to be equal?. However,since this is so unreliable,we cannot say that atheism gives women rights.In the early 18Th century,the English critic Daniel Defoe denounced marriage as "legalized prostitution." English law dispossessed any woman who married,with the notable exception of England's queens.Women were not allowed to own property or land or to control their own assets.William Blackstone,a celebrated 18Th century jurist, put it this way:"By marriage, the very being or legal existence of a woman is suspended,or at least incorporated or consolidated into that of the husband,under whose wing, protection, or cover she performs everything."
With the advent of Islam came the verse from the Quran elevating women,honoring them and giving them equal rights with men.Though as we notice in some cases,women have been given greater privilege that men(as in the case when a Muslim woman marries,she becomes an owner of her husband?s property,BUT her property remains hers alone, and her husband has no right over her wealth)
?Can they marry whom they themselves choose??Ah, am I astounded!?I am afraid you have little idea about Islam and the Quran.Had you the slightest knowledge regarding Islamic laws,you would not have asked such a question.Forced marriage is completely forbidden in Islam.Muslim woman chooses whom she wishes to marry,and according to Islamic law,if she is forced into marriage, it(the marriage)will NOT be valid.And the person who forces her shall no longer remain Muslim.And marriage in Islam is a contract, not sacrament as in other religion.And women retains all her rights after marriage unlike The Common law of England until a few centuries ago,which defined a married woman as being one with her husband,who had to give up her name, and virtually all her property came under her husband's control.During the early history of the United States, a man virtually owned his wife and children as he did his material possessions.If a poor man chose to send his children to the poorhouse,the mother was legally defenseless to object.
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