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My mum is married so it's out of question.
as for female sisters: if they are adult and responsible (independent, which they aren't) then they can do what they want.. Mata is not only about sex..
I know someone who didn't have Mariam to go hajj so she married Mata to his youngest son 12yo for 2 months.. this way she was allowed to hajj with them as they became her Mariam, and was she returned, they nullified the marriage.. end of story
if suitors are looking to satisfy their desire, then why are you agreeing on it unless you have the same intention??? Because no one is forced in Mata marriage..
As for the question you pointed to motorman;
Why should he care what relatives do?? everyone is accountable for their deeds.. and by our laws it's not a sin.. thus, why should he be against it to begin with?? if both his relative female or my relative female satisfies the conditions of permissibility of Mata, then so be it..
And if it is that bad as you consider it to be, does that mean the prophet allowed it knowing all these bad things about if for a long period of time.? If it was that bad, he wouldn't allow it to begin with right???
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