Shi'aThe Shi'a constitute 10–20% of Islam and are its second-largest branch.[9][12] They believe in the political and religious leadership of Imams from the progeny of Ali ibn Abi Talib, who according to most Shi'a are in a state of ismah, meaning infallibility
I'm a Sunni guy gonna get married to a Shiite girl whom i love more than anything.,I'm not involving religion into our relationship but she doesn't want me to be a Sunni Cox she thinks I'm gonna introduce our children to Sunni belief and eventually to her as well. I'm ready to do anything,even be a Shina..,but how would one do so?
The hardest part of a Sunni-shiite marriage is the parents agreeing. In most Muslim societies, Shiites will take girls from Sunnis but wont give them to Sunni men, even if he tries to become a Shiite. (its more of a family thing - your family cant become Shiite)
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Or how about remaining faithful to God & the message that the Prophet saws brought ?
> Delisha - by Allah Set who created us - is a belief based on Matam, Mut'ah, Infallibility of human beings, cursing at those who preserved and protected the Prophet and Islam, and from whom even You are able to read the Qur'an today - is such a belief true ? You should become Sunni - Jannah does not come with false beliefs, sister. Think about the grave, about the Adhara, when we will be alone - only the truth will save us then. (I am only saying this because I care for you - It might hurt, but this is the truth - shia islam is a sect after the true Islam already existed in the world - it has beliefs that CLEARLY contradict the Qur'an - is that why your shia scholars believe in the Qur'an not being preserved ? I have all the quotes from your scholars, sister - In fact, even the fabricated surahs and verses they lied with against Allah swt) - And if we deny all this, then are we not only fooling ourselves and making the matter worse for us when we stand before Allah swt ? How will choosing to be blind now help us then ?
Think about it behen. Wassalam.
> Delisha - I swear by Allah swt, I researched better and more about the truth before reverting to Islam myself - and I know more about most other religions than even their scholars. And I know more about Shiaism from your own shia scholars than you.
After all that, I accepted Islam which was taught by the Prophet saws - not by a jew known as Abdullah ibn Saba, the founder of Shiaism, whose existance even your own scholars have admitted.
And you chose Shiaism to marry a guy who was shia - yes or no ?
So which of us, me or you, are better in terms of knowledge and understanding of the truth, and accepting the truth NOT based on a man or woman we could marry, or other foolish things like that ?
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Why does she think its such a bad thing to introduce your kids or her to Sunni belief???? If she loved you, she would not be thinking like that, and you shouldn't have to change for her regardless of how you feel about her, the same way you fell in love with her, you could find another who will accept you the way you are. Dump her, I would.
or instead of right away wanting to be a Shina first understand what Shina Islam is then i guess u can be one!
um mm so talk to a Shina, compare Ur beliefs n Shina beliefs n then choose.
ask the same thing on chitchat.com
or WNW.najaf.org they answer really fast may be in like a day.
i am a convert to shia islam so i think instead of doing for someone first learn n then do it
salaam bro
@malik: im quite mature enough to classify what made sense n wat didnt, as a convert i took into consideration both n then chose shiaislam over the other.
and matam is not barbarious, the reason for matam shows what it really is, looks don speak everything . each n everything makes sense in shia islam.
no wonder i see so many sunni to shia converts in fact seen two people here on this very site, go ask the user shi?ya why she converted from sunni islam to shia islam, may be she could explain why it made sense!
- Yes we all know that it is allowed but unless there is a real valid reason..
- YES! I would allow my husband 2do Muthaa, ONLY if he allows me 2do the same.
beat yourself up in Muharram.....hit your head on a stone in Sajdah, dint pray like Rasulullah (saw) did, say "Ya Ali" a lot....curse the Prophet's (saw) Sahaba (Ra)
sad you'd want to be that way for some girl
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you Shina disgust me! I cant wait for the day you'll be at Abu Bakr (RA)'s and Umar (RA)'s feet regretting each word
If I am her I will not agree that you convert "in the name of my love"
If I were you I will not love any one more than my god, and if there is something limit my love to my god... I will ask Allah to make me do better and love him more than others
how you would do in this situation?
worship Allah and ask him to help you to define yourself, now you "don't involving religion into your relationship", but "she does". and married is between two...
both should have "equal, clear, and Honest word" !
Ur supposed to be a MAN, wt! men are the one who controls the family not women..
and u will follow falsehood to marry her, why not become Buddhist then Cox it's just as bad?
if u really, really loved her u Wu teach her the correct way, not hurting itself on ashram to impress a women..or curse the beloved sahib or even listening too it.. ya Allah make this man see sense..
don't ever change to make someone happy, be YOU and most of all == be a man
I was really wondering, based on your Q, when the Shia say to Sunni Muslims "may Allah guide you" do they mean:
1- may Allah guide you to believe Al Kafi and disbelieve the Quran?
2- may Allah guide you to curse the wives of the Prophet pub and his blessed companions
3- may Allah guide you to willingly and consciously pay fifth of your hard earned possessions to the Shina clerics who are rich and dint even seem to know the basics of Arabic language, let alone dint memorize the Quran and dint know anything about Islam
4- may Allah guide you to logically accept mutah and practise taqyah 24/7
5- may Allah guide you to beat yourself in Ashoura over a Sunni Leader who is the chief of youth of Paradise after a betrayal THEY did
6- may Allah guide you to beleive the fairytales and supernatural stories of alleged infallible imams
7- may Allah guide you to believe that somewhere in Samrra'a there is a hidden 12th imam who seems to be waiting like forever till the "right moment" comes so he can take the sahaba out from their graves to punish them
8- may Allah guide you to beleive that Allah swt punished the Prophet pbuh by burrying kafers besides him!!
9- may Allah guide you to believe that the nation of Muhammed pbuh never took over the world throughout 1400 and the upcoming Shia nation will be the real Islamic nation that will lead the world under the banner of their mahdi
10- may Allah guide you to believe that the Quran was preserved, complied and conveyed by kaffirs!
11- may Allah guide you to leave all the blessings and goodness of the Authentic preserved, scientifically and fundamentally sound Prophetic tradition, over some Rafidhi narrations, best described as talmudic quotations
Seriously, what does "may Allah guide you" mean when said by Rafidha?
in India ..
Pakistan
Iraq ,
all over the world
lot of marriages between
shies
Sunnis
its just recently such radicalism ...is dominating
2] she seems to be immature
she will repent by narrating these conditions
in actual life these do not work ...
one should be honest /truthful
sincere ...
be good human first ,then faith will give strength
How can I be a Shi'a?
