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i agree with moires. don't do it. things can backfire and get very ugly, if it even works in the first place. even if it does, would you really feel happy knowing that you pretty much forced her into it and the only reason she's with you is because of it? maybe at first you could but eventually you'd be miserable. three suggestions:
1. instead of asking for a specific person, ask for love. just ask it generally(you never know, she might be the one but you can't force it)
2. try being proactive and doing the normal thing of hanging out with her, then eventually asking her out.
3. put yourself in her place for a second. think about someone you're repulsed by, what if they did it to you? that alone is enough to make you want to stop.
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