Family influenced break up/Spell (witchcraft) involved?
I?vie been with my SO for 5 yrs and last three we lived together and engaged.
His parents literally hated me, especially his mother. They were jealous of me. I know how weird, I was with her son and no reason to be jealous. If I made good money that?s better for both of us and should make her happy. Well that wan?t the case.
She always tried to fill up his ear. Hated the fact that our relationship was 50/50 and my word was heard by him. They (parents) were constantly throwing it on his face why he is asking me and why is he letting me make any decisions when he is the man. Very old fashioned I know!
On top of all that, she was very rude to me. Some things she had done to me:
Tried to tell me what to wear and what not to wear
Gave away my personal things without my permission (in our house)
Always put her nose in everything (wanted to know where we are at all times
Bad mouthed me and made lies about me as well as my sister in law
Always complained that I took their son away from them and they were suppose to live with them there forever (how she planned)
Always gave me order and both to my SO (if we don?t do it, they will turn their back or she will start to cry and curse)
And I could go on and on?
Now, she was a big drama queen?She felt like she had the total right to tell me whatever she felt like, but when I said the same thing back, she would start to cry. At that point her husband jumps in and then it seems like my fault. Even though, my SO knew that it wan?t he was afraid to say anything because they ALWAYS threatened him to turn their back at him forever. He did?t want to loose his parents and neither would I, but my parents would never put me in that position where I had to choose either.
And for whatever reason whenever he sees them his attitude changes towards me and arguments start. When we seem them together and when we bother are there with them, everything goes fine. On Saturday he sow his father when he came home he asked if I was busy (run a side business) and if we could go see his folks. I said yeah I am sort of busy then he said well we could go tomorrow and that was our decision. Well his mother calls and asks that we come down that same night and he says ?okay we?re coming? WITHOUT even checking with me, and plus we?vie already made our decision for going tomorrow. That really upset me and I did?t want to go. I told him that he can go, since he broke our decision but I will not. And he got really upset about me not going because they will start questioning why I am not there and so on?
Then he calls my mother to tell her how I did?t want to visit his folks and how he is going without me and my mom said fine its between you and her because she did?t want to get in a middle of it. He never came back that night. I was worried and called down to his parents and she said that he stayed there for ? hr and left stating that he may be back. I asked her to call me when he returns so that I know he is okay. Well he came back and she never called or told him to call.
The next morning he comes to pick up his things at about 10 AM. His dad came with him! Then him and I had to run to the store and then he told his dad to leave and that he will come down by him self. Well we came back from the store and his dad is still waiting there, he told him to leave again and he did?t. Then my SO went on the balcony called him and told him to LEAVe and he finally did. After my SO packed (at about 11:30 AM) he did?t leave until 7:00 pm.
All this was sort of weird. And my aunt suggested that I go to one of the psychics since his mother even in the past has been involved with spells and what not. So we go. Literally the lady is looking at me in the eyes and telling me everything about it. She told me that someone made two spells. One was made two years ago and one a month ago in a different country (and his mother did go to another country last month). The 2nd spell was to make us split totally. She even told me that the spell was made to work through our sexual intercourse. Whenever we do it, it pushes him away from me and he is more and more distant to me. And she even said you?ve had severe yeast and bladder infections that keep on coming back because of this spell and I DID! It?s so shocking. She will find out for sure who made it; in fact she even will tell me the name.
She told me that we are soul mates and that he is crying at nights for me, but the spells has control over him even though it?s on me. She promised to have this taken off of me and that he will return and we?ll be happy again. I made it clear that I do not want him to love me and to come back against his will and I don?t want to do any of that magic, but she was totally certain that all she had to do is to remove the spell that?s on me and that was it. Everything will go back to normal.
What are you thoughts about this? Any experiences?
Tracy, SO is significant other/fianc?.
I don't get where the witchcraft thing is involved, but this sounds like more trouble than it's worth, unless the man is willing to break ties with his parents, which he has the option to do, and I'm surprised he hasn't. It sounds like:
"Mother, father, I am with the woman I love, am going to marry, and am going to have children with. If you accept her, I will continue to be in contact with you and you can see your grandchildren. If you refuse to treat her with respect, then you will not see me again and you will not see your grandchildren."
OH MY GOD>...... when are you going to have your fill of it all? let mommy have their son back an wish him all the happiness in the world w / mommy an daddy! wipe your hands clean of it all! and have a stress free life!
ask yourself this..... do you want to be with a guy who can't make up his own mind or do anything without approval from his parents?
Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
It's the only way for a boy to turn into a man!!
If you think it is bad now, how would it have been if you would have married him? You would have never been free from these 'very messed up' people. It would have effected all decisions to be made including where you were going to buy your home, how you are to raise YOUR children, and so on (the list keeps going).
Sure, I know, right now is the moment you are in pain, and you don't want to hear about time will heal, but trust me, you aren't going to die from the heart ache, however, you may have died from the stress of being with someone who can't grow up!
What is SO? Also, are you looking for something or have they done something?
Also...he needs to step up and be a man. My ex husband wouldn't say anything to his dad and ultimately we divorced. There was a decision about money to be made and he took $2500 out of our savings account on his dad's advice, not talking with me about it. If we had a problem, his dad was in the middle. While I was pregnant, and after having our son, I was having a problem with sex. Couldn't do it, hurt too much. Went to many doctors about it and told it's in my head and that he needs to start being more romantic, etc about things. Well, we break up and 4 months later his dad comes to me and says "so, did you take care of your sex problem?" Couldn't believe it.
I believe if my ex was truly a man he would of told his dad to butt out. He's now realized the problems, but too late for us.
My parents weren't happy w/ my choice of husband, but...they also didn't get involved. Only once, in 4 1/2 years, did she say anything.
If the boyfriend would not stand up for you, then it is good things broke up before marriage.
His parents, especially the mother, are very manipulative. No witchcraft was involved, just a boyfriend who doesn't have the courage to stand up for you in front of his mother.
The thing about spells and black magic is if you allow yourself to open up to this then it will take its affect on you. When your in a relaxed state of mind(meditating) or even sexual intercourse. It takes you to another dimension to where you soul is like a door. If you decide to render magic in retaliation or protection, then, you have a circle of curses. The best and only thing to do to reverse this would be to pray to God to have it broken and sent back three folds upon the person who cast it. I would advise to not open Pandora's box any further. With that being said yes, I have been through this, but with my own mother. I tried to break the curse and cast one also, the end result was bad finances, depression, and binge drinking. So, I asked God to enlighten me to what I did wrong and sure enough it was going through a tarot reader.
I'm a witch. One thing I can tell you is that we can't influence emotions. We can't force people to love or hate. No, black magic isn't the cause. What's the cause is that the parents don't like you and have been whispering to him about it.
They really trashed your life... I think it's better to leave mommy's son to her. You don't want to spend your life with someone who is still his mommy and daddy little boy... believe me, I had a personal experience... after I left him....I'm totally relieved...YOU DESERVE BETTER
It sounds like you really need to get out of this relationship while you still have a chance. His parents are older folks I'm sure and very set in their ways, so you have very little hope of changing their attitudes. Your b/f doesn't sound like he is ready for a real relationship because he is so controlled by his parents. Get out and leave him behind. This whole magic bit isn't good either. There is no point in going to a medium or spirits or what ever because all it does is open spiritual doorways that you really don't want in your life. Magic is real and I would be very very cautious of who you're talking to. If I were you I would call it quits with that man and be done with him and his family once and for all. I know that it is very easy for me to say and I know that breaking up with some is terribly hard but you need to. For your own sanity and your future! Pray to Jesus and ask for HIS help. He is the only one who knows what is BEST for you. Stop sleeping with that man and confess your sin and Christ will hear you. God bless!
Family influenced break up/Spell (witchcraft) involved?
