Question For Practitioners Of Witchcraft Or The Occult?
The question I have regards love spells. I don't have much experience with it, but lately I have been getting this crazy inkling inside me to try it. I know all about the laws of karma and what can happen when you put negative vibes out there even so though.... I was wondering if I somehow did do a love spell and yes a black magic one on someone violating free will what is the worse case scenario that could happen? Don't tell me it's not possible either, because I know if you search hard enough there is a lot of effective material out there...it's just a matter of finding it.
They did that in Buffy the Vampire Slayer once. There was a small mistake with the casting of the spell, so all the women in town began chasing the poor guy. He was lucky to get out alive
Of course it would be a black magic spell, most magic actually is.
I don't buy into the "law of three" or even how most modern people assume "karma" to work; as far as I am considered its all a bunch of new age fluff.
I doubt a love spell would work, i.e. that the person fall in love with you, unless it was already within their Will to do so. Humans are not that powerful that we can magically convince someone to fall in love with us out of the blue; unless that spark it is already there its not going to work.
As far as a worst case scenario? Well you could end up with the person you wanted only to find you don't really want them after all and now they are completely obsessed with you.
IF you did a "black magi ck" love spell... it wouldn't really be a love spell would it? "Black magi ck" (which is merely what some people call magi ck they consider harmful and is a completely subjective category) is, by definition, harmful and has a negative intent. Love is not a negative intent. You might be able to cast a mind-control spell, but that wouldn't actually work. So, really, the worst thing that could happen is that your spell would fail and you would be carrying around bitterness because of whatever reason you had to want to control someone.
Love spells are real and do work and do bring love into your life (I have pr oven this in my own life). Many people mistake love spells for something they are not. Those that claim that you will have someone be obsessed with you are somehow mistaking love for obsession... a sane witch would never cast a "be dangerously obsessed with me" spell instead of a "love me" spell... obsession is not love and I don't know how people confuse this. If you don't understand what love is or think that love=obsession, you have no business casting a love spell!!! If you think you have a pretty good idea abut what it feels like to be truly and honestly loved, go for it!
The worst-case scenario if you cast a genuine love spell with a positive intent (IE: not an intentionally "black magi ck" spell intended to harm or control) is that you may not be ready for it to succeed. If you cast a love spell and are not ready or willing to accept the genuine love offered to you as a result (or imagine that they only love you because of the spell), you will break someones heart and break your own. It is self sabotage and angles another person in your own tangled web of poor self-esteem.
For a proper loves spell to work without negative consequences, the witch must have first done the personal work to prepare him or herself to receive love... that means that the most effective love spells are usually directed at the witch him or herself rather then anything external. You cannot love another without first loving oneself and one cannot accept love without first seeing that one deserves love in the first place. Without this, any love spell you cast can simply start a destructive cycle of having someone fall for you only to hurt them by rejecting them out of an inability to understand their love for you. With this inner work, oftentimes the actual love spell becomes moot as the witch has opened him or herself up to love only to find it before he or she even has a chance to cast that love spell!
Lust spells work similarly. It is best to cast a spell upon oneself to increase sexual attractiveness rather then target some poor sap to fall into your bed with you, especially if it is not in their best interest to sleep with you. Sex should be treated with respect, just like magi ck should be.
Anyhow, that's my view and experience.
-Scarlet
I don't have qualms about violating free will, but, my experience is that it's not even POSSIBLE to do so through magic. Unless you can find that famous spell from Haiti that makes one into a zombie with no thoughts at all, the fact is a person will always maintain personality and opinions, and if they really don't want to do what your spell directs them they won't do it. All the magic does is sort of give a push in the right direction. The story of St. Cyprian and St. Justina is a famous story about how "coercive" magic does not actually overcome free will.
Unfortunately, most experiences I've known with love spells did not work too well, as usually people make the mistake of trying to use them as a last resort on a person who isn't interested, and for the reasons just described that doesn't usually turn out. They are best done early on -- maybe not as the very first resort, but as a good supplement to other designs.
Let's see, as I recall... I knew a woman who used a Fast Luck spell to find a lover and wound up marrying the guy; I knew a woman who used a lodestone spell to bring her boyfriend back after he left her, and another who did just a simple candle spell to bring back her husband the night he meant to leave her. I knew a girl who did a very powerful grave dirt love spell on a man and was overwhelmed by how well it worked -- in fact she regretted doing it, as she wasn't ready for anything that extreme. I knew a girl who used a Love Me Or Die spell that seemed to be working but she started feeling too bad about it and laid off. I heard an old account in a book called "Voodoo Conjure" of a woman whose husband did a spell to bring her back after she left him, that made her just through a slip of the mind walk back to his house (her old house) one day instead of to her new home, and she ended up never leaving. There are many.
Whatever you end up doing, keep your expectations realistic.
Question For Practitioners Of Witchcraft Or The Occult?
