I couldn't really find conclusive evidence to the antiquity of Zoroastrianism, but I believe Akhenaten was doing a monotheistic sun worship before that. All the books Ive read say that's the oldest.
yes it was first monotheistic. alto of people say that their religion was first to introduce ideas of heaven hell, judgment day and Armageddon. Their are a lot of books published about this especially during 1930s